Many men think they can handle pain but cuckold phone sex will teach you! If I agree to see a client, they’ll bring a letter to the session, or read me one they’ve written about cuckold phone sex. I’ll ask whether they really want something or have just written it down in excitement.  My clients have to be honest – not just about their fetishes but also their delicate hip, dodgy knee or hair transplant.

You wouldn’t know those things from the letters, which can insist on alarming degrees of torture. It’s all part of the fantasy. But they also need to understand my parameters that there are things I won’t do. And they must accept that they won’t touch me. An erotic, dominant cuckold session with me provides a surreal sensory experience, maintaining an unobtainable aura that feeds into the fantasy. We do not learn a range of specialist skills and invest in expensive clothing and equipment simply to lie on our backs.

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People don’t always understand why they enjoy sadomasochism, but the desire for submission often comes from relishing the experience of role reversal. Usually, the man must be erect & ready to perform. That isn’t the case in the dungeon where there is no sex and therefore no anxiety. Some will have tried bondage with their partners but it can take over.  Plus for the partner become a chore. Or they may grow more extreme in their fantasies and for partners who aren’t used to the peculiarities of the fetish world. It can be upsetting. Some wives know their husbands see me and we develop our own correspondence.

Readers may think the men I meet are abnormal but I have found they are well balanced.  Able to separate the fantasy part of their lives from the reality. I have formed long friendships based on a mutual honesty that instantly puts the relationship on a different level. My clients know they can call me anytime. I once heard from a regular who had become stuck in his high-heel boots. I managed to help him sort it out so he could return to his job as a long-distance lorry driver. Who else could he have rung?